As I observe those around me, I see different responses to those who struggle with homosexuality. There are Christians and non-Christians alike who see this lifestyle as being acceptable. They say we should not question who someone loves, and people are homosexual from birth...it is not something they choose to be. On the other end of the spectrum, we see those who are labeled "homophobic". They avoid homosexuals and condemn every aspect of their personhood, based on this lifestyle. My question is, what does the Bible teach about how we are to address those who struggle with homosexuality? What of a Christian who has same-sex attraction?
In Gay Girl, Good God, Perry gives an open account of her life. After being rejected by her birth father and raised by her single mother, Perry did not see men as "safe". As a teenager, she discovered her attraction to females and entered into homosexual relationships.
But God. Perry came to know Christ as her Savior, and her life changed. I love how she emphasizes that God did not simply save her from homosexuality. He did not swoop in and change her, so that she was suddenly no longer attracted to females. Rather, God forgave all of her sin, transformed her mind, helped her to see her homosexuality as the sin that it is, and gave her both the desire and the strength to turn from this sin. Same sex attraction is still something she struggles with and likely always will. As Perry writes, "Same sex desires are actual. Though born of sin, they aren't an imaginary feeling one conjures up for the sake of being different. But the actuality of the affection doesn't make them morally justifiable. It is the mind, when conformed to the image of sin, that moves us to call evil good simply because it feels good to us."
At the end of her book, Perry offers some resources for those who may be struggling with being a Christian while having same sex attraction. These chapters are well thought-out and filled with helpful Scripture. Written by one who has struggled through these things herself, this looks to be a very encouraging resource. These chapters can also be helpful to those who do not understand how a Christian can struggle with same sex attraction and who wish to find clarity on the matter.
Homosexuality is fairly common in our culture, and Christians need to know what the Bible teaches on the subject and how to interact with those who struggle with this sin. This book helps teach in a way that is practical and easily digestible. I am thankful for Perry's candor on the matter and would recommend this book to those interested in learning more.
Rachel's Rating:
★★★★☆
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